Tuesday, December 16, 2014

GenNext Comes of Age


GenNext Comes of Age

Recall the vibrant song that an innocent village girl sang with gay abandon in the film Roja: 

Dil hai Chhotaa saa, Chhoti si Aashaa; Masti Bhare Mana ki Bholi si Aashaa (in Hindi); and
Chinna Chinna Aasai, Siragadium Aasai; Muthu Muthu Aasai, Mudinthuvaitha Aasai (in the original Tamil version)

A few years ago at Srishti Day a school or college-going girl rendered this song (one stanza in Tamil and the next in Hindi) with incredible felicity and attracted great applause. Doesn't ring a bell? It was Preethi, the daughter of the Bhashyams. 

Well, that very young girl is now a lady and mother of a one-year old charming girl, Aadhya. Time flies.  She and Sri Ganesh celebrated Aadhya's birthday today, no doubt, fully supported by Jayanti and the quiet Bhashyam,  It was held in a hall at the Iskcon temple. Early this morning when I was in the lift for my morning walk, the Bhashyams brimming with joy boarded at the fourth floor with bags all over that they could hardly carry. I offered help, but they declined. As it turned out, these were stacks of saree-dhoti combinations to be gifted to the core relatives, and very thoughtfully selected and probably bought from Singapore, return-gifts for the rest. 

The ceremony was well attended mostly by relatives and a few Srishti-ites. We are not sure if it was mandatory to have the catering by the Iskcon temple authorities themselves Truth be told, it was very good. The only snag was that very few could do justice to all the items on the plantain leaf. Also, these were served with ladle, not tablespoon. 

Preethi and Sri Ganesh have been based in Singapore for a while. I met her and the baby in the Srishti compound the other day, thankfully along with Mr Bhashyam. So I could connect. Otherwise, honestly I might have looked as blank as I did when she hailed, "Hello Uncle, how are you?"  at Kartik's (B-306) wedding in Chennai. Preethi, an engineering graduate backed by post-graduation in business admin, works from home in Singapore. 

Shyamala Lakshmipathi (B-806) was to join us to the ceremony. But she opted for a better company and accompanied her Sambandhi (Dr Sunder's mother). For return we had the pleasure of having Shri Raghavan and Chitra (of B Block), but are not sure if it was a pleasure to them too because, as usual, I disregarded the repeated backseat shouts of Aunty to take a U turn at the next exit from Iskcon, and instead sped ahead with supreme confidence. It dawned on me I was in the opposite direction after a few kilometers, then condescended to her suggestion and took a U turn. Raghavanji gave me an exterior "All in the Game" smile, but I bet he must have sworn to himself, "Never again with this guy". 

V.V. Sundaram

B-703

Sunday, December 14, 2014

Pink Panther Vs Mighty Tiger


Pink Panther Vs Mighty Tiger

Trust me, I am not essaying an episode from Animal Planet. These are the names that ladies of A and B blocks have assigned to their respective cricket teams. A friendly match was played this evening at the basketball court. Where else? The seriousness of practice sessions of both sides at different intervals lasting up to 11 in the evening, and the match this evening per se belied the term “friendly’. It was no less than an Indo-Pak match.

The general opinion, ahead of the play, was that A block team, Pink Panther, was strong.  Sujata led the team. They had in them some who had probably played with their siblings in childhood - or had some such exposure. Ideally they should have named theirs Roaring Lions, raring to go, to perform and to win. And that is exactly what they did.

The B Block team, Mighty Tiger, a shade less, tried to make it up with more vigorous practice sessions and strategies. The Mastermind? Of course, Jaya Sanjay who was simply matchless in her own way. Thus, in essence it was a battle of strength versus strategy.

The match was played with 10 overs each. Jaya, captain of Mighty Tiger, won the toss and chose to field. They made a good beginning by taking a few wickets before the Pink Panthers stabilized themselves and made 42 runs in the allotted overs. Udaya remained the top scorer with 11 runs.

Luck did not favour the Mighty Tiger (Or, am I denying credit to Pink Panther?). Rashmi whom they sent out to open and on whom they were betting their last pie, hit the ball over the net and got out. A few others down the line followed suit in similar or other fashions. The team got out in 9.1 overs managing 25 runs, and conceded victory to Pink Panther – or, Pink Panther won.

The highlights:

(1) Geeta, of Pink Panther bowling just two overs, took four consecutive wickets (more than a hat-trick), conceding no runs whatsoever. A commendable performance.
(2) Poonam Bajaj, of Mighty Tiger, was the top scorer with unbeaten 11 runs which included the only sixer of the match.
(3) Jaya, the captain of Mighty Tiger, took 5 wickets - the highest number in the match.

Jagadish Shenoy, our President, acted as the umpire. He also formulated in advance rules suiting the basketball court where the match was played. For example if the ‘batswoman’ hits above the net she is out. If she hits the net in front without the ball touching the ground, it is a six; otherwise it is a four. There were a host of other stipulations. We got a grip of them minutes before the match ended. Sanjay and Rajesh Jain acted as leg umpires for one session each. Two young boys maintained the scorecard.

I personally guessed the gathering would consist of just the players, their 22 spouses and their children. Far from it. There were many others - to the extent that the moment one got up from the chair, there was someone else to grab it.

The weather chose to be pleasant, and it was a rewarding evening. The only setback we suffered was that in their undying enthusiasm not to let any catch go unavailed, Udaya and Neo of Pink Panther attempted for one together and bumped into each other’s heads. Udaya sustained a cut that needed six stitches. Neo escaped with swelling on her forehead.  We wish them speedy recovery.

V.V. Sundaram
B-703
14 Dec 2014

Friday, December 12, 2014

Welcome Back Gautams


Welcome Back Gautams

It is nice to see again the smiling faces of Gautam, Malar and Sidarth (B-101), or Sid for short.  They are here on a holiday from California. In 2008 they moved to the US on reassignment, initially with a promise to return in two years. Three such two-years have passed, and there is no trace of their return. So we should reckon they are there to stay. Our best wishes wherever they are.  Srishti's loss is Cupertino's gain. 

We learn that Arindam Bhattacharjee and family (B-201) too have recently relocated to California. Yes, I was intrigued of late by the absence of his high-end Audi from our car park. It was a star attraction. We learn the Arindams stay in the same area as Siva Paturi and Prashanti - about 20 miles from Gautam's. Watch out, a mini Srishti is fast growing in California. Right now we have Krishnamoorthy/Hema in Saratoga, Aunty and me in Santa Clara (whenever we are in US, that is) Gautam and family, the Paturis, and now the Arindams, all within a radius of 20-25 miles. The mini Srishti meet that is almost regular in Gautam's place with Krish, Hema, Aunty and me in attendance until now, should hope to add two more families. Personally I don't remember having had interactions with Arindam, but I do recall having a nodding acquaintance with Sagarika - more with her infectious smile.  

Speak about the Gautams and no mention of Sidarth will be a dinner without a dessert. Already a six footer at 18. I expect Sid to grow a few inches taller in the next couple of years. You name any Srishti resident, and chances are he can tell his block and apartment number. Yes, when Gautam has difficulty in relating some of the residents in the Yahoogroups  when they omit  apartment number in their communication, Sid comes to his rescue.  Yesterday at the dinner at our place he recited Skanda Shashti Kavacham (slokas of Kartikeya that shield one from any evil) for full fifteen minutes, without fumbling at any place. Did he learn it the hard way? No, Gautam used to play the CD during the drive, and he picked up. Nice to see Sid back brimming with self-confidence. Considering some of the challenges that were in-born, (which, last night,  we felt somehow had now become non-existent), Sid now attends a vocational training school and commutes the distance in public transport, all by himself.  Bravo Gautam and Malar. Malar, we know you sacrificed a lucrative job with your engineering background, just to be with Sid in his trying times. Glad he is way past it.

Personally for me, I always benefit from Gautam's visit. Last time he helped me to design a blog of my own, and also to organize certain other things in my computer. Yesterday he fixed my desktop that had of late begun to disobey my commands. Now i can delete with ease all my old junk - to make way for new. Second, last week with all fanfare I bought a smartphone with no clue whatsoever on how to use the various apps. Yesterday he gave me a brief on some, and weeded out others that he felt either I did not need or were beyond my capacity - aap ka matlab ka nahin, to use a polite Hindi expression. Thank you Gautam for being realistic. I bet, when you relocate to Bangalore on retirement, your hands will happily be full with troubleshooting assignments in Srishti. 

V.V. Sundaram

B-703 
12 Dec 2014

Monday, December 8, 2014

VKR Seniors' Tour, Day 4 (Tuesday, 3 Dec 2014)

VKR Seniors' Tour - Day 4 and final (Tuesday, 2 Dec 2014)

We particularly made sure that we left hotel room at the earliest. It was our final day, and we were behind schedule. We rushed and despite the Sabarimala crowd had a fleeting darshan at Chenganur Devi temple that we missed by a whisker the previous night.  Back in hotel to check out, we were told by another guest that the Pandalam palace and the 'Thiru Abharanam" display were open. 

So we reversed the mini bus and left for the Pandalam palace. According to legend, about eight hundred years ago the then reigning king and queen were a childless couple. Vishnu and Shiva were under pressure from their devotees to end the atrocities of Mahishi. She was particularly angry at the trick Gods played in getting rid of her brother Mahishasura whom Durga killed. Like her  brother, she too had obtained a peculiar boon from Brahma which made her death difficult if not impossible. So Vishnu as a male and Shiva as a female (Mohini) arranged for the birth to Dharma Sastha (Harihara putra) and let the Pandalam maharaja find the baby in a forest. Sastha, or Ayyappa, grew up into a strong lad mastering all arts required to become a military commander. Thus one sees all the war equipments of those days on display - the sword, spear, protective shield, and what have you, all made of gold - and well guarded. We also made a small tour of the palace where Ayyappa grew up. The current senior palace lady, in her eighties overflowing with the royal grace and face, greeted all visitors. We talked to her for a while. 

From there we headed for Mannarsala, a Naga temple. Here the childless couple come and place one particular cooking utensil (uruli) on its back - topsy turvy. Later when a child is born, they come back and reverse it, and do a gratitude puja. A living example is Vasantha's son Prasad who was born after Vasantha performed this ritual. (For the younger generation, Vasantha is my Chittappa's elder daughter, settled in Calicut - Kozikkode)

Now it was getting noon and the temples would close. So we hurried to the next spot, Ambalapuza, the abode of Krishna. The temple is famous for two things. One, here they play flute, the favorite instrument of Krishna, instead of the customary Nadaswaram. My co-brother in law, Kamala's husband Hari had the privilege of playing flute whenever the regular guy was out of town or went on leave. Two, its prasadam, the Ambalapuza pal payasam. We reached in time for darshan, but alas would have to wait for an hour for the puja to conclude before they distributed prasadam. So we denied ourselves this privilege.

We had two more in the list to complete - the temples in Alapuza and Chertala. For both we would have to wait till the evening. That would mean we would be back in Coimbatore way past midnight. And Rasa/Manni had to take the next early morning flight. So we decided to skip these two and head for Coimbatore bringing our four-day long tour to a successful completion. 

Swamiye Saranam Ayyappa.   

Snippets (in a lighter vein, please)

Part of our foolproof arrangement was that everyone will change seats at each break so that all will have the pleasure of - or,  will be subjected to -  front, back, window, middle or aisle seats. But it so happened that at the first break when it was announced, no one opted for any change. 

Rasa had deliberately kept the last row of seats vacant just in case anyone wanted to lie down for a while. No one availed of that. So  Raja occupied this space for the most part stretching his leg and dozing undisturbed except to extend his hand involuntarily to accept eateries distributed now and again. 

I distinctly remember everyone having said something or the other, but I don't particularly recall Rati Manni uttering anything all through the journey. Or, did she?

Rasa, Shanta and I were seated in close proximity to one another. So we could regale ourselves with some of Ramanathapuram and Vadakkanthara childhood incidents, and Leela joined in wherever she was party to it.

No one ever got lost in the group except that Raja was the last to board a little later invariably - he never fails to survey the place, surroundings and more importantly the shops before surfacing casually.

Mani managed to capture his quota of daily nap wherever he was, be it in installments thanks to jerks and sudden brakes that brought him back to life for a while.

Sundaram made his usual kind of noise, as though he was running the show -  the look busy, do nothing kind.

And, finally vote of thanks:

- to Rasa for selecting an unexplored route (for most of us, and tried and tested for him) with an array of temples that we might otherwise have missed in life; for his meticulous planning of miles/temples to be covered in a day; places of halt, etc. If you ask, then how come you missed two temples, the answer is: we covered two unscheduled temples - Srivilliputhur and Sankaranarayanan earlier. And Pandalam palace was on our 50:50 list.

- to Mani/Shanta for letting the Global Village, their home in Coimbatore, be the focal point for all the hullabaloo, and the accompanying hospitality;

- to Raja/Leela for taking care of all train and cab bookings (absence of tower and range notwithstanding), making enquiries, and doing errands;

- and to Lalitha and me (no one said that, so I am claiming it myself), for keeping accounts of the entire trip and emerging with a cash-in- hand shortfall of only Rs 7/- in the final tally - loss of less than one rupee per head, that is.

- and finally to Prem Nazir, the driver, for his safe and steady driving all through, except on the return journey when he was in an undue hurry. Yes, we heard him answer a phone call from home. Probably he reassured his wife and children that he would join them for dinner.


VKR Seniors' Day - Day 3 (Monday, 1 Dec 2014)

VKR Seniors' Tour - Day 3 (Monday, 1 Dec 2014)


Monday morning at 7 everyone was ready, in the real sense. Leela and Raja left a little earlier for Kutralam where there was facility to perform Raja's mother's Shradham. 

It was announced that breakfast would be ready at 7. So in the true Brahmin tradition (for meals) we were there on the dot only to find the chef on a slow motion with his toothbrush. We searched a few more places. Apparently, the day breaks in that town only at 8. So we came back to our own hotel, waited for a while as we found them getting Idli ready. Raja and Leela joined us just in time with a welcome packet of hot Dal Vada and plain Vada. Apparently in Kutralam the row of houses on either side sold fresh snacks and filter coffee with spirited competition. 

After breakfast we drove to Achan kovil - Ayyappa temple. Now we were in Kerala. The temple is on a hill, so we had to do some circuitous uphill driving. Most of us braced it.  Leela's enthusiasm switched to a low key. We had a very good darshan - say exclusive. Since the temple is surrounded by dense forests and Western Ghats, we learn snakebite is a common occurrence. They bring victims to the temple, the pujari offers them water sanctified from puja, and  they are healed. I didn't ask them what if the snakebite happens at night.

Then we drove to Aryan Kavu where the presiding deity is Ayyappa. I learn this is "one among the five most important temples dedicated to Lord Ayyappa in Kerala. Ayyappa is depicted here as a teenager (young boy). Ayyappa is known as Tiru Aryan and therefore the place got the name Aryankavu". Kavu is temple, as you all know.

From there we hurried to Kulathupuza where the deity is Bala Sastha, or Ayyappa as a child. We had lunch at a make-do restaurant that had sprung up specially for the Ayyappa  Mandalam season (mid-Nov to mid-Jan). The guy says he bought the space for this period at auction for 2.20 lakhs. Initially we were skeptical, but the food was good except for the boiled rice they serve in Kerala as a rule. 

The wait for an hour for the temple to reopen in the evening, relaxing in the surroundings of dense forests and hills, and an engaging Sthala Purana elaboration by the less busy owner of the hotel helped Leela overcome her nausea and enjoy the cool and fresh breeze. He said that herds of elephants were a regular feature. They come to the Kulathu puza (Kulathu river) in the precincts of the temple. Snakes. wild buffalos, bear, and occasionally leopards also show up. Offering rice to the fish in the river is a must. Ayyappa as a child stopped near this river, to play with fish, on his way to fetch the 'medicinal' tiger-milk for his foster mother, the queen. She feigned acute stomach ache and, in connivance, the attending royal physician prescribed tiger milk as a cure. All this in a bid to send Ayyappa to the forest never to come back, and ensure the crown to her own child that she had begotten then. 

It was 5.30 in the evening and we drove to our next destination, the Parthasarathy temple in Aranmula. It was here that we had to slow down more than usual to make sure we were on right track.  It is a beautifully structured temple built around 30 steps above the ground. From this place we hurried to the Devi temple in Chenganur just in case we were lucky to have darshan. We missed it by a few minutes. But that didn't matter, for we were to stay there for the night. So there was always the morning darshan. We had to forgo dinner from the hotel of our choice apprehensive of one-hour wait, so settled down for the next available, and booked ourselves in a hotel for the night.  The highlight of that was Santosh, the room boy from Orissa, who was so helpful. 


(Day 4 and final, to be continued) 

VKR Seniors' Tour - Day 2 (30 Nov 2014)

VKR Seniors’ Tour – Day 2 (Sunday, 30 Nov 2014)

Let’s all be ready by 7.30 tomorrow morning,” team leader Rasa said, as we retired to bed the previous night. “Or, try to be…” he amended, realizing that some functions are system-generated and not within one’s hands.

Strangely next morning everyone was ready half an hour earlier. So we decided to have breakfast before checking out. The breakfast fare included steaming Idli, Dosa, Pongal, freshly ground coconut chutney, and hot sambar. Unfortunately Vada was not ready yet. Must be murmurig: are you all gluttons or seniors with less digestive capacity? Rest assured we ate moderately, choosing differently, and not each one a plate of everything.

Luckily for a lone worried member the breakfast promptly stimulated his system. Thus all of us were able to leave Palani with a relieved body and a relaxed mind to Tenkasi - a very long stretch. So Rasa suggested we make a detour and cover Srivilliputhur.

Srivilliputhur is probably the lone pilgrim centre where two huge, architectural splendour, old temples are situated within fifty metres from one another. One is that of Perumal, Vishnu, and the other that of Devi Andal. The front gopuram of the Perumal temple is magnificent, and it is the iconic emblem of Tamil Nadu Government.

The story of Andal and Perumal is very similar to the devotion and love of Meera to Krishna. Andal was the daughter of the priest of Vishnu temple. She knitted the flower mala for the temple. On her way to the temple, she had the habit of trying it out on her neck first and viewing it in the still water of the temple-well. It seems one day her father saw this, and rejected her garlands thereafter. Equally promptly the presiding deity rejected all garlands the temple authorities tried to put on, letting all of them fall on the ground. Then they realized that the deity would accept only the garland prepared and tried by the devoted Andal. Even now the well is intact. Each pillar in the temple is an architectural marvel carved in one piece of stone. Kudos artisans, the real unsung heros.

Lalitha’s sister Saraswathy’s sambandhi, Hari Narayanan, and his wife live in Srivilliputhur. Earlier, when in Bangalore he had insisted that in case we made it to Srivilliputhur I ring him up on arrival so that someone would take us around the temples. He deputed one to the Perumal temple, and accompanied us himself to the Andal temple. But for his presence it would have taken us much longer to have darshan. After that he said he took us to yet another place. Alas, it was to his home, for lunch at such short notice and to eight full-grown (or, overgrown?) adults. He gifted us laminated photos of the married Andal and Perumal, As though these were not enough, he arranged for four packets of temple prasadam - tasty Pal gova (milk cake), giving us equally a taste of what hospitality is all about.

Next it was Sankaranarayanan temple where half the idol is that of Shiva and the other half Narayana. In the same premises we had darshan of Gomati Amman. I wish I knew the Sthala Puranam. The highlight however is its antiquity and magnificence.

It was time for a bite. Each family opened its collection - from Coimbatore, Mumbai and Bangalore – and distributed. Rasa made sure that Prem Nazir, the driver, got his share.

Fortified, we left for the last leg of the day, to Tenkasi, via Kutralam waterfalls – the only picnic spot in the tour. By then it was twilight. Lalitha and I still decided to stand beneath the gushing waterfall. Both chose a place where the fall was less ferocious. Leela/Raja said they had visited the place earlier, though did not specify if they came in direct contact with the waterfall. Rasa/Manni and Mani preferred to watch the fun – whether it was a joy or ordeal for those venturing. Shanta was in two minds. By the time she decided to take the plunge, it was dark. So she said, “either tomorrow or next time.”

Soon after this we hurried to Tenkasi, or Kashi of South when translated. No one could complain that he did not have a good view of the deity. It was huge, and the temple yet another marvel.

Time to call it a day. We had dinner of a sort followed by ice cream for some and hot milk for others. The hotel was very good, so was the tariff.

(Day 3 – to be continued)

VKR Seniors' Tour, Day 1 (29 Nov - 2 Dec 2014)

VKR Seniors Tour Report - 29 Nov-02 December 2014

Day 1 (29 Nov 2014)

The trigger. A chance presence of Rasa/Manni, Mani/Shanta and Raja/Leela in Coimbatore for different marriages prompted Rasa to summon me and Lalitha from Bangalore for a family reunion (of the seniors), and a pilgrimage. Too bad Gauri Manni couldn’t join despite our best persuasion and incentives – a seat of her choice, full three seats to keep her legs stretched, etc.

The visits. Palani: As soon as Lalitha and I alighted from the train in Coimbatore at 1 pm, the rest of them were waiting for us in the Tempo Traveller hired for the trip. Shanta had prepared hot sambar-rice and cool curd-rice for the two of us. As we busied ourselves with the food, Prem Nazir, the driver negotiated successfully through the busy streets of the city to get to the highway to Palani.

On the way, as is his wont, Rasa had whispered into the ears of Prem Nazir to stop the vehicle the moment he sights the now famous Kumbakonam Degree Filter Coffee outlet. And he did it promptly. We had steaming coffee, with the overhanging cloud and drizzle adding a fresh impetus to each sip.

There it is - the Palani hills,” we heard a shout from behind, in the eureka style, as soon as she spotted it - ahead of the others. Was it Shanta?

We checked into a previously reserved hotel, freshened up and headed for darshan. Half the group had opted to foot the hills and the others enjoy a cable ride. But it was the day of the golden chariot procession. So we were advised to hurry up in cable car and finish darshan before the chariot crowd disintegrates us.

The hotel had a ‘man for all seasons’ who could cut across all rules and regulations, or policies and procedures to get you in the shortest time as close to the lotus feet of Lord Muruga as just outside the sanctum sanctorum where we were seated comfortably to watch the proceedings for full seven to eight minutes before we were bundled out, to accommodate the next batch. Of course, all this for a price.

We were all set to call it a day. The rooms were just okay. My fan operated on an either or basis, i.e., full blast or standstill. When I approached the Receptionist to change the room, he said with a nonchalant shrug, “Sorry, it is like that in all the rooms in that row; you have to adjust, Sir.” I felt relieved. After all, others no better.

That marked Day 1. Of course I won’t elaborate on the Sthala Puranam. Suffice it to say that Lord Ganesha and Kartikeya were told that whoever managed to go around the world first could stake claim to the delicious mango that Narada had brought. Kartikeya set out on his vehicle, peacock. Lord Ganesha circumambulated of his parents, Shiva and Parvati - that they constituted the world, and got away with the mango. This angered Kartikeya; he left his parents’ abode and settled down in Palani in protest.


Day 2 to be continued

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