Monday, March 17, 2014

The US Citizenship Journey


The US Citizenship Journey

It was a September morning in 2007. Yet another day in our retired life in Bangalore (India) until we got a call from our younger son in California to joyfully announce that he was to become a father soon.

Earlier, thanks to USA's open-arms policy to admit foreign students and offer scholarship or assistantship where possible, both our sons were able to pursue Masters in the US in their chosen fields of engineering, and be gainfully employed with multinational companies. Since then the both have become US citizens.

Thanks again to the US Government's deep commitment to the 'family bond' concept, parents of US citizens could apply for green card without any restrictive annual visa quota. Backed by this, in the next few days of the call, we held frantic to and fro telephone conversations with both sons and their families. A clearer picture emerged: that we would seek permanent residence in the US. Everything has a price. Documentation for this included birth certificates, marriage certificate, police clearance, and pre-emptive affidavits from elders in the families, on the lines of the childhood poem: Solomon Grundy, Born on Monday, Christened on Tuesday, Married on Wednesday...

Six months later, armed with all possible documentation, if not a little more, we boarded a flight to San Francisco with all our earthly belongings, now rolled into two suitcases each, 50 pounds apiece. The flight took off from Bangalore two hours later. Consequently we missed the connecting flight from the hub, and were bundled into a long detour flight that skipped just Alaska to land in San Francisco eight hours later. That didn't bother us so much as the make-do lunch we were served - bananas, cookies and yoghurts for an Asian vegetarian meal. Understandably, they needed 48 or 72 hours notice to arrange for such special meals. However at the airport, on seeing a radiant daughter in law with all features of motherhood, we forgot all about the ordeal, and headed home.

We got the green card even without the customary interview - thanks probably to the thorough documentation - and in a much shorter time than it took in those days.

Time flies faster than you think. More so when you have two cities to alternate for your stay, and three spirited grandsons to give you company, initially - and to stay away from, later. Now it was time to apply for citizenship, or Naturalization. Here too, the more the care and truthfulness with which you fill the form, sure to be able to defend whatever you declare therein, the more it helps the interviewing officer to gauge your eligibility. Another great characteristic of the country is: it operates on TRUST. When you go through the mill successfully, he/she hands you a 'congratulations' letter on the spot that you have passed the interview and test, and asks you to wait for the Oath Ceremony letter. This is the most difficult period - so near yet so far. We received it, for 4 October 2013.  There were 72 citizens-to-be from, guess, 32 countries! If this is less, then what is more? Doesn't it speak volumes for the country as the world's best democracy or a land of opportunities, if not reflect a true miniature world?

Among those who spoke after being bestowed citizenship, some ladies literally broke down. They regained composure and felt happy their children could now hope for the best education, as for a good life. An elderly lady who could speak little or no English walked with difficulty up to the podium to speak. But she couldn't. Seeing her plight the Adjudication Officer who learnt she was from Iran,  suggested her: "Say 'Thank you' in Iranian [Persian]". She promptly said: thank you in Iranian. Everyone took the fiasco in an all in the family spirit, and gave the 79-year old lady, now a fellow American, a thunderous applause.

V.V. Sundaram
17 March 2014

A.N. Sivarama Iyer - Obituary



A.N. Sivarama Iyer - Obituary

Remember a frail gentleman of medium height, past his mid-eighties, enjoying an evening stroll in our Srishti compound a few years ago - donning a sparkling white dhoti, two-thirds sleeves loose shirt and a neatly-pressed towel resting on his shoulder?

That was Shri A.N. Sivarama Iyer, father of Mr Narayan of B-001. Having to divide his time among his four sons and a daughter (all in Bangalore), one had to content with his limited edition presence in Srishti.

He breathed his last on 5 March in Rajaji Nagar at the age of 92. Till the end he was alert and agile. As though he had a clear vision or premonition, he called members of the family by his side that morning and asked them to give him a sip of Gangajal one by one before bidding farewell to this world.

I can’t claim very close acquaintance with him, but during the stroll I did enjoy his company, hopefully as much as he did. He shared with me information that one would normally confide only with one’s own kith and kin. Who knows he considered me one. (Yes I do, because during his last one-day visit to Srishti a month ago, he had enquired with Narayan: “Is that ‘Vadakkanthara’ (name of my village) man here or in America?” Unfortunately I was not around.)

Leaving his home (Ayalur, a remote village in Kerala) early on in life for Mysore to eke out a living, he helped his mentor (elder sister’s husband) at the cash counter in his hotel. Years later, with the latter’s blessings he started one of his own, which ran till the adjacent bread-winner factory closed down, forcing him to take up a regular job.

By the time he called it a day, he had owned a sprawling house in Mysore yielding mangoes, jackfruit, (name any) and had provided good education to his children. With age getting the better of him, began his meticulous planning for departure, He set aside a sum specifically for his obsequies. To pay obeisance to his village deity, he sponsored the customary mass feeding (of around 800) done during the annual car festival. But alas, he was told his turn to host would come after five years. He requested the gentleman whose turn it was to host that year to swap with his, and had him agree. Now, that Samaritan has only reasons to feel happy that he had after all agreed, as otherwise this particular wish of Shri Sivarama Iyer would have remained unfulfilled.

As we bid farewell to the departed soul praying for it to rest in peace, Shri Sivarama Iyer leaves behind a legacy of what meticulous planning is all about.

V.V. Sundaram, B-703
16 March 2014

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